As much as i luv being a stay-at-home-mom, i now begin to wonder…do moms ever have annual leave? Yes i am sooo drained.
Being with them 24-7 is no joke. My whole body is aching, my cluster headache is back due to sleep deprived. Believe it or not, my sleep was disturbed eleven times last nite. Since i slept at 11 and woke up by 630..that means i didnt even get a complete one hour sleep.
The husband can get his beauty sleep while away at work, and my maid do get her overnite outing every month. So it is just me that doesnt get a break at all.
Dulu wasn’t too bad coz my kids sleep latest by 830. So i get time to rest. But something wrong with their bedtime nowadays. They sleep at 10pm! And wake up as early as 7am.
The husband suggested to take livita, but i find that it will worsen my condition. I’ll be wide awake but yet mentally tired. Can i pack my bag and go for a getaway? No of coz i can’t coz my clingy kids need me!
This sounds pathetic..but yes, do keep the words coming to keep me on the move. Coz seriously, i feel like locking myself in the room and get a good rest (which again not possible).
*Cluster headache is not a joke, coz that means Hello to painkiller again.
well being a mom is tiring of course. tapi dapat pahala kan? that should be enough reason to keep u moving, i hope.
take care 🙂
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sian u.. nanti kita try figure out something.
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mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE Reply:
December 12th, 2009 at 9:04 am
can’t seem to find any solutiong to figure out…
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ya allah samalah kita…since i’ve stop work. 24/7 dgn diaorg plus i have to do the mopping, `washing, cleaning plus cooking. i rasa bila mlm nk tido tu mcm nikmat sgt tapi bila bebudak ni buat hal rasa nk mengamuk je. alhamdulillah my hubby mmg tiap malam ada kat rumah. don’t drink livita i’m taking oatmilk energy daripada biogreen so far so good.
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mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE Reply:
December 12th, 2009 at 9:03 am
oatmilk? alamak i tak suke oat…hihi
well, its funny that despite waking up very hour. i dont feel sleep during the day. but i do feel body aching and all and i do think that im pushing the limit of my body part. so takut kang if tetiba breakdown, pengsan i
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I understand how you feel though I can’t imagine myself in your shoes.. No one would want to be near me if I did woke up 11 times the night before.. huhuhuhu..
But I guess the smiles and laughter from your kids will be able to cure your headache anytime ;p (though just for a split second :p)
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mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE Reply:
December 12th, 2009 at 9:01 am
last nite was slightly better. my sleep was interupted 10 times. That’s one time less..haha
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nana dah free ni. mai mai. hehehehe
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mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE Reply:
December 12th, 2009 at 9:00 am
nana ape plan? tak ronggeng ker?
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nana Reply:
December 12th, 2009 at 4:11 pm
ronggeng. this 2 weeks ni byk plan. then my frens dah strt semester baru, tggl la nana sorg2…
if u need a helper, sila sila hubungi nana
hehe
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my dear..i suggest u take 2-3 days ‘leave’, leaving the kids with your parent/ maid everymonth so u can get some rest and Me time.total ME time! i spent my ME time with my fens/ niece once a month..and get beauty sleep during outstation once every 3-4 months 😐
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mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE Reply:
December 12th, 2009 at 9:00 am
ironically, when i leave my kids behind…i’ll be thinking of them every minute “are they okay?” “is uZAir crying for milk” and so on…
btw, when u said u spent ME time once a month means day outing ke overnite outing?
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i baru ade sorang anak ni pon ade rs mcm nk escape..nk tido puas2..nak have my own time..
tp aritu i kene tido hosp sbb jaga my husband 2 days 1 night..i sampai nangis malam2 sbb rindukan anak..pulak dah!!!
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mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE Reply:
December 12th, 2009 at 10:04 am
tu lah yg i kate. ironic kan…when we want Me time sooo much. tp bile away every minute piki pasal anak kat umah
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my suggestion would be for u to just getaway and leave everything behind for a day at least, or a night. of course u will be thinking bout them sbb u have been with 247 all this while but like u said, your body do need a break. And im pretty sure your kids will be ok kickin and alive by the time u balik nanti and u will be refreshed like never b4. think about it munirah. we love our kids, but we gotta love ourselves too 🙂
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mOmmyofTRIPLETSplusONE Reply:
December 12th, 2009 at 11:08 am
ya, i do agree with u tat we gotta love ourselves, afterall our body parts have their rights too kan. but besides worrying about my kids, im more worried of those who take care of them. Will they tolerate such behaviour. I ni sbbkan mak diorang..so nak taknk kena lar tolerate kan..hhaha.
believe it or not, uZAir can cry/scream for complete 2 hours nonstop..volume remain the same from the very first minute. kang tak pasal2 my maid lari. ha, lagi haru dibuatnye if maid lari.
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