A month ago i remembered clearly the quality time i had with hArith. While the other 2 were asleep, my mom asked if we wanted to tag her along to Ikea. So off we went. All this while mall has always been synonym with strollers for my lil’ rascals.
Yup, everytime pegi mall they will remain seated in the stroller. No chance at all to get up from the stroller. They have been trained that way. Oh, basically they are left with no choice. If one wants to get up, sure the others will follow suit…so getting off the stroller is a NO NO.
However, since it was just me and hArith. i decided to treat him like a big boy. Hold his hand and walk together. I noticed that by doing so it makes him more alert of his surrounding, he will walk towards things to feed his curiosity and while doing so, both of us will interact. i will explain this and that. At times, it may be just simple things like mentioning the colours he sees. This interaction are not so possible while seated on stroller. Yes, they can look around but we dont comunicate. Mom will just push around the stroller.
Somehow i feel that it is good to have such quality time like that. Like yesterday, went to OU to pick something up. Brought uZAir n hArith since athirAh was asleep. So uZAir seated in the stroller (pApa pushed) while hArith walk with me. He would point to those advert and read the numbers and alphabet he recognize. I feel that it is a good exercise for his vocab. We went to the bakery shop, he helped me hold the tray while i choose the bread and he placed the tray on they counter for me.
So i’m thinking that every now and then i have to do this. To go out with just one of them, walk hand in hand and explore the surroundings, together. So sape yg tido, die lah kena tinggal…hihi
BUTTT what i’m worried is that, if i were to do this, each time we go out full force..they might tend to refuse sitting on their stroller. That would destroy all the years of training sitting nicely on strollers.
So what do you think?
A reader of my blog email me saying husband die kena slip disc. Doctor suruh operate, yes it was severe stage. but they wanted to try USANA so they could try avoid the need of operation. This was my conversation with her via ym last week.
munirahpunye: hi dear
munirahpunye: how’s ur husband?
Honey : alhamdulillah
Honey : he is getting better
Honey : yang bestnyerr dia dah tak terbongkok bongkok lagi
Honey : hehehehe
Honey : tapii masa mula mula ari tuu kan
munirahpunye: mmg the ubat works lar kan
munirahpunye: dh brapa lame ek die amiq?
Honey: almost 2 weeks
munirahpunye: mmg dah ade beza ek
munirahpunye: sbb lain org lain kn
munirahpunye: cam i punye kaki ni lmbat skit
munirahpunye: ade org yg mmg cepat serasi
Honey: tapi sakit masih lagi
Honey : cuma tak laa bongkok udang
munirahpunye: sbb bkn cam magic
Honey : boleh lurus badan
Honey : tapi jalan sakit lagi
munirahpunye: oh b4 this mmg bongkok sgt ke
Honey: yerr laa
Honey: sangatt bongkok
munirahpunye: now dh bleh diri tegak
munirahpunye: keep on lah taking the supplement
Honey : n hari tu sampai kena pakai tongkat
munirahpunye: insyaAllah okay
munirahpunye: ohh mmg dasyat tul smpai kena pakai tongkat
munirahpunye: oh mase yg jumpe doc yg kate nk kena operate tu ek, mase tu mmg bongkok sgt2 yer?
Honey : yup
Honey : now ok
Honey : doktor pun dah kurangkan dia nyer fisio
Honey : daripada hari hari
Honey : just seminggu 2 kali ajerr
Honey : masa hari jumaat lepas dia dah start tak pakai tongkat
munirahpunye (11/3/2009 8:16:36 PM):
*btw, her husband is taking Essentials and Procosa II
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